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Thursday 9 June 2011

What women DON’T want!


Many a blog have been written to about women on how they cannot make up their minds on what they want from men. Well that aside, below is a short summary of what we DON’T WANT. This post is not one borne of bitterness…there just was a need!!!!
·We do not want you lying to us that we are number one when we are not. Yes, we can be nagging and persistent but you are a man and therefore you can handle the pressure of letting us know how it is. That saves everyone time and a lot of energy.
·We do not want you to leave us guessing. It is true that men are not mind readers BUT neither are we. Perhaps more perceptive to some extent but if you like a girl go ahead and let her know lest she just goes on with the flow and when you find out she does not like you as muvh, she is becomes a b****.
·We do not want to be strung along only for us to get our hearts brokendown the line having wasted time on you. Let her know whether she is the real deal or you are just looking for a casual relationship; we are, after all mature adults here. Stop lying to her about how special she is blah blah fish cake yet there are scores of other girls filling your inbox wanting to know where the next rendezvous is. This way she can make a choice whether she is willing to settle for such or she wants something more and she is free to leave your a**.
·   We do not want you asking and probing us about our ‘time of the month when we can be nasty and cannot give you what you want intimately’ in that moody tone you assume, like it is our fault. Just let her go through the motions at her own pace, trust me it is stressful enough without someone breathing down our necks.
· Women do not like guys who are not gentlemen; if you go around demanding that you want a lady make sure you can be the man she requires you to be; check yourself before you wreck your self.
·The women I spoke to emphasized that they do not like men who do things for them and expect "payment". It is becoming very rare to find a legit dude who cares for more than just what is between a woman’s legs. Surprise these women so they can stop lia’in, “aki Kenyan dudes!!!nkttttttttttttttttttttt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!”
·We do not want guys who are full of themselves and think they are God’s gift to women. A man who is proud of who he has become, we have no problem with, but it really is a thin line between this and arrogance. Furthermore, do not go over board with the talking about you the entire time thing; it can get so annoying!
*Excerpt from what one chic said, I did not want to paraphrase at all*
“Mentally, I don’t like that men think they are superior to women ama they are always right no matter how much noise a chick makes. Emotionally, I don’t like how they assume that every chick is the same, textbook...that just coz one chick behaves in a certain way means that it is their inborn nature to behave the same...assumptions is the mummy of all fuckups!!! Na huwa hawaget that simple statement!!!”
·Lastly, for now, women do not want you assuming that because you have achieved your ultimate pleasure point sexually, so has she. I do not have to delve into this; just do what you need to do to please your women.

So dudes, these women love you; all they ask is that you style up and love them the hell back.


 playlist: What a girl wants - Christina Aguilera

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